Deep down inside…we know the answers to the questions that ail us. We go out in search of advice…needing help from others when we know no one can tell us what to do with the answer we already have.
Fear of the unknown…Deep down it’s the emotions we are afraid of…Fear. Fear steals. Fear lies. Fear is the enemy…much like the cliché of “We are our own worst enemy” We stay in jobs, relationships…making excuses, why or why not. Why is this? Why do we do this to ourselves? The circle of “Why” surrounded by “Fear”.
Why not change…why stay in the same place, doing the same thing? Toxic relationships…anything between you and someone or something is considered a relationship. Our relationship with food. With People. With significant others…Our jobs…if indeed you are unhappy…Why do you stay?
Change…Change is hard. This is something I’ve said many times…I start a list…I jot it down, I cross it off…I rewrite…but does the list change? Does the change take shape? Does it hang out for a while and then “get-up” and GO? For most, the answer is…Yes. Does change take place?
It can. Small steps. Small changes…often we try to go all gung-ho…the take-off is good…until it isn’t. Change what you eat. Change what you say. Change what you do…Change…when done in small doses, change can happen. Not overnight, but it can…because You can. Believe in yourself. Believe in the change. Let go of the Fear…erase the doubt. Let go and let God.
I’m here to tell you that You can…when we can come to terms and find acceptance for our inner self…Trust…and Love who You are…then the rest will fall into place…Yes the emotions still come with your “theme park” whatever the ride…Just make sure the ride is worth riding…and Love You some You.
Have a great Friday...See you Sunday.
Be Good to You.